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Lessons From A Failed Marriage

Sometimes I come across things I think are sooo brilliant I just HAVE TO re-blog them.  This is one.  It is a bit tragic … but A LOT poignant.  From the ashes of two failed marriages the wisdom below...

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Why I Believe We Under Estimate the Heart of Men …

Below is a letter written by a man about why he wanted to accompany his wife to a couples intimacy retreat and why the weekend was of value.  It is a ‘voice’ we don’t often hear … and yet it is the …...

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The 7 Elements of Potent Passion – The Anatomy of Intimacy

If life and the soul are sacred the human body is sacred; Leaves of Grass                                         Walt Whitman A New Sexual … Continue reading →

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Why Go To An Intimacy Retreat? A Man’s Perspective

A man’s viewpoint on deep and abiding love can be a rare find … and I believe, when found … a valuable opinion.  It is not rare, because it is an uncommon occurrence, but rather men’s words are not...

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Do You Have Marriage Insurance?

Nearly every month one of the therapists I supervise will staff a case with me of a couple who is separating or divorcing because they didn’t know how to take care of their relationship and they didn’t...

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5 Secrets Every Sex Therapist Wants You to Know …

The other day one of my clients came in and said, “All these years, I’ve had it all wrong! I had no idea sex could be this good – this much fun!”  I thought to myself, “I seriously have the … Continue...

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A Letter to my Son on the Eve of His Wedding

Ever wonder what a marriage, family, sex and intimacy therapist might say to one of her children as they were about to get married? Let me give you just a little peek …   I recently had an...

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What I Wish Everyone At 20 (& 30…) Understood About Marriage

The goal of our life is…to bring more love and truth into the world. We marry to assist each other in this process. Leo Tolstoy A dear friend of mine said on the eve of his oldest daughter’s thirteenth...

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Who is Having the Best Sex? What Research (not the media) Says

We see this question on magazine covers lining grocery counters every day. I read studies looking at the numbers all the time. Many of the studies focus on frequency of intercourse. But how good is...

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My Love List About My Husband … and why gratefulness is good for the heart

Evenings at our house are rather hilarious … you see, neither of us cook. Kids are now gone and so is the sense of obligation to fix dinner … or go to the grocery store. The beloved and I will walk in...

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