Lessons From A Failed Marriage
Sometimes I come across things I think are sooo brilliant I just HAVE TO re-blog them. This is one. It is a bit tragic … but A LOT poignant. From the ashes of two failed marriages the wisdom below...
View ArticleWhy I Believe We Under Estimate the Heart of Men …
Below is a letter written by a man about why he wanted to accompany his wife to a couples intimacy retreat and why the weekend was of value. It is a ‘voice’ we don’t often hear … and yet it is the …...
View ArticleThe 7 Elements of Potent Passion – The Anatomy of Intimacy
If life and the soul are sacred the human body is sacred; Leaves of Grass Walt Whitman A New Sexual … Continue reading →
View ArticleWhy Go To An Intimacy Retreat? A Man’s Perspective
A man’s viewpoint on deep and abiding love can be a rare find … and I believe, when found … a valuable opinion. It is not rare, because it is an uncommon occurrence, but rather men’s words are not...
View ArticleDo You Have Marriage Insurance?
Nearly every month one of the therapists I supervise will staff a case with me of a couple who is separating or divorcing because they didn’t know how to take care of their relationship and they didn’t...
View Article5 Secrets Every Sex Therapist Wants You to Know …
The other day one of my clients came in and said, “All these years, I’ve had it all wrong! I had no idea sex could be this good – this much fun!” I thought to myself, “I seriously have the … Continue...
View ArticleA Letter to my Son on the Eve of His Wedding
Ever wonder what a marriage, family, sex and intimacy therapist might say to one of her children as they were about to get married? Let me give you just a little peek … I recently had an...
View ArticleWhat I Wish Everyone At 20 (& 30…) Understood About Marriage
The goal of our life is…to bring more love and truth into the world. We marry to assist each other in this process. Leo Tolstoy A dear friend of mine said on the eve of his oldest daughter’s thirteenth...
View ArticleWho is Having the Best Sex? What Research (not the media) Says
We see this question on magazine covers lining grocery counters every day. I read studies looking at the numbers all the time. Many of the studies focus on frequency of intercourse. But how good is...
View ArticleMy Love List About My Husband … and why gratefulness is good for the heart
Evenings at our house are rather hilarious … you see, neither of us cook. Kids are now gone and so is the sense of obligation to fix dinner … or go to the grocery store. The beloved and I will walk in...
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